It is the context of our life which changes our life.
It's not the knowledge you gather in your head, it's not the muscle you gather in your body, it's the life.
It's a huge oak tree standing outside, it is not trying to create an impact, it's just impactful if you go under its shade and feel it.
There is no such things as this is my life and this is your life, you see, this is a living cosmos. Everybody is free to capture as much as they want.